*this is a limited edition program, I will not be running this again*

As many of you know, I am constantly recommending the book, Getting to “I do,” but here’s the thing… it’s super dated.

This book was written for women in the 90s, before texting, before dating apps, and before the “me too” movement. Needless to say, the dating landscape has drastically changed since this book was written. While this book provides great structure and some outstanding insights on men (seriously, this book completely changed my understanding of men and why they do what they do), there’s a lot it doesn’t account for.

So I’ve decided to fill in the gaps!

This is an 8 week hybrid program designed to help you prepare for and finally create an epic relationship!

The Getting to “I do” book club experience is a hybrid program that will alternate weekly between book club lessons and my teachings. Dr. Patricia Allen (the author of Getting to “I do”) does make the claim that her book will enable you to “meet the man you desire and become engaged likely within this first year.” That’s a pretty ballsy claim if you ask me, but I have experienced firsthand how powerful and effective the structure she provides is.

However… as many of you know, a perfect strategy will not work if you have rancid “cologne,” (and for anyone who’s new here, cologne is a metaphor I use to describe your energy.) Your cologne is what men are unconsciously responding to.

Creating an epic love life is damn near impossible when you’re wandering around, pouting like Eeyore, chronically bracing for disappointment, or feel like you’ll never be important to a man you’re interested in. As I always say… cologne dominates (so we need to make sure you have that dialed in!)

HERE’S THE PROGRAM BREAKDOWN:

(Titles in quotations are chapter titles from Getting to “I do.”)

• WEEK 1: “Are you the woman you think you are?” -GTID (book club session)

• WEEK 2: Preparing your body and mind for love. (Sydney’s lesson)

• WEEK 3: Dating strategy for a serious committed relationship or marriage (book club session)

• WEEK 4: Texting, communication, and modern solutions for modern problems. (Sydney’s lesson)

• WEEK 5: “Dealing with the toad in every prince” -GTID (book club session)

• WEEK 6: COLOGNE COLOGNE COLOGNE! (Sydney’s lesson)

• WEEK 7: “For the rest of our lives” -GTID (book club session)

• WEEK 8: Love is an infinite game. (Sydney’s lesson)

LOGISTICS:

• This is an 8 week program, classes are held weekly on Wednesdays (times will vary to accommodate multiple time zones). The schedule with times will be sent out closer to the start date.

• There are 3 different tiers for this program, price and details are below.

• Our first class is September 2nd with our 8th and final class on October 21st

• For the mini-mind and 1:1 tier options, this program runs from September 1st to October 31st.

• Replays will be emailed to you once they’re uploaded!

• PayPal is available at checkout. (PS: my former business name was Onyx Healing and that still shows up as the vendor name on PayPal, so if you see that, yes, it’s me!)

• Due to the nature of digital products, there are no refunds.

• DISCLAIMER: By purchasing this product, you understand and agree that the information provided is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is based on Sydney’s personal experience and opinions. This program is not therapy, counseling, medical advice, or a substitute for professional psychological treatment. Sydney is not a licensed therapist, counselor, or medical professional. You are responsible for your own decisions, actions, and results.

• Includes the live 8 week program

• If you can’t make the live calls, no worries, replays will be sent out once they’re uploaded!

• Plus, if you have questions just email them in and I’ll answer them during the designated call times.

• Upon purchase, the pre-work will be immediately sent to you via email. I strongly suggest completing this before our first call on September 2nd.

**NOTE: this mini-mind has limited seats. This tier will close once it sells out.
Includes everything in the book club a la carte tier, plus:

• Telegram access to Sydney M-F from September 1st-October 31st 2026 (this Telegram room will held exclusively for the mini-mind participants)

• For those of you wanting guidance in real time as situations come up, I highly suggest this option.

• If you’ve ever wanted “Sydney in your pocket” to answer your questions or help you with text messages/communication/dating situations, this is for you!

**NOTE: there are 2 spots available for the 1:1 upgrade. This tier will close once it sells out.
Includes everything in the book club a la carte tier and the mini-mind tier plus:

• Private Telegram access to Sydney M-F from September 1st-October 31st 2026

• 4, 45-minute 1:1 sessions to be used between September 1st and October 31st 2026.

• One payment of $2,222 or two monthly payments of $1,250

• This tier is available by application only. Once you fill out the application, you will hear back within 2 business days at the absolute latest. Keep your eyes peeled for an email from hello@onyxhealing.com

**Disclaimer: of course I want to waive a magic wand and guarantee you a bunch of kick ass results since I believe in your infinite creative power! Sadly, I cannot guarantee any results since you’ve got free will and all. While I can give you the tools, you’re fully in charge of implementing them and are responsible for your results.

Anyway, enough of the boring legal stuff! Take responsibility for your ability to create fully and let’s freaking do this and have a great time!**