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“You are a godsend. My last relationship burned bright and fast, and I was devastated when it was over. A few months after the breakup, I started seeing your content and was sitting with a lot of hindsight. I was EXHAUSTED in the last relationship— so many therapy conversations and so much anxiety about not hearing from him because the early precedent of the relationship was constant texting. Over time I realized, wait a sec… I don’t WANT a relationship that involves constant communication because it’s just compulsory, false, and temporary reassurance. Constant texting is not the slow burn, friends-to-lovers, soul-tie type relationship I’d dreamed of, so why was I doing it that way? I got my shit together based on your stuff and intentionally closed a few doors in my life to open up space for something that was built on what I wanted. My mantra for the year has been being a “sweetie and a lover,” with the goal of showing up in all facets of my life in a more loving, unassuming, positive way. Fast forward to now and I’ve been seeing a guy who is the most amazing match for me for a few months. We often go a few days at a time without a text and I could not feel more relaxed and confident. Getting to know someone almost exclusively in person is so much more romantic than waiting for a notification. And, it did take me some time to get there: sitting in the temporary discomfort, knowing that I was contributing to an ideal long-term dynamic. I’m becoming braver and braver with emotional risks, leading with feelings, and remembering that I want to be with someone who moves forward only when the light turns green— so it’s my responsibility to signal green! He’s met me with the most thoughtful, sweet, and intentional version of himself each time and I’m constantly giggling and kicking my feet. It truly feels like a magic want! I’ve never felt so unwaveringly optimistic about someone, and I love even more that even if I’m wrong and this goes down in flames, I’ve prioritized protecting my time and the other parts of my life by not letting him consume every moment and thought, so I will be just fine. I’m confident that if I hadn’t seen your stuff, I would’ve given up on myself in this dynamic much earlier. And as a girlie with diagnosed (R)OCD, you jump-started my healing in a way that I’ll never be able to thank you enough for.”
“You know what’s funny I started watching your content to see if you had any tricks for how to make your partner more interested in you. At the time I didn’t see anything wrong with it but now I can reflect and know, it didn’t come from a place of love because I genuinely didn’t know how to. I have lived most of my life tense and not fully relaxed around people. I loved being alone and had a strong tendency to people please and I was very likeable as a person as you would expect, I knew exactly how to adapt depending on the type of person I was speaking to. And because of that I resented heavy as well it was like everyone I knew I had an ounce of resentment for. That resentment would come out worse than being honest would, my cologne would change and become icy id physically feel angry and tense up almost as if my body was telling them to go away. After watching your content I enrolled in the inner game, ice queen, texting magic and lover girl. As time has passed I’m really seeing the fruits of mine and your labour. It’s like I’m living life freely. I say what I think and actually know how I feel I don’t pretend as much and don’t expect anything of anyone. I accept people for who they are and don’t overanalyse it. My relationship with my boyfriend couldn’t be any better when I tell u this man is quite literally my dream man! It’s crazy but I couldn’t see it at the time because of my cologne it was bringing a nasty side out of him but now that I’m working in my self omg it’s like he’s a completely different person truly you are so right “when you shift they shift” I need that tattooed on my head in every relationship I’ve ever been in I have never been in love I thought it just something you say I had no idea it’s a feeling and now that Im doing the work oh my, it definitely is a feeling and I am definitely in love. God led you to me at the perfect time in my life I feel great and so free like I’m living for the first time. Your content isn’t just for romantic relationships it genuinely is life changing I feel beautiful and I know that with my whole heart and I couldn’t thank you enough! I’ve thanked you before but this time I’ve grown even more!”