I have some very controversial beliefs and perspectives about so called “relationship needs,” and the worst part is… they’re totally normalized.
Your friends, your therapist, and your coworkers will likely all be standing on the sidelines reinforcing the idea that you should “get your needs met.” But the one thing I know for sure is that in the moment you approach relationships from “need” you will quickly find yourself in an endless loop of dissatisfaction, chronic relationship “issues,” and you’ll contract a terrible case of never-enough-itis.
It might just turn you into… a love vampire.
Really ask yourself, are you sure that the path to epic love is paved with… need?
Or perhaps there’s more to the story…
TELL ME IF THIS RESONATES…
You always experience partners that aren’t doing enough. They don’t communicate enough, they’re not consistent enough, they aren’t emotionally available enough.
When you ask for something, sometimes you’ll see improvements, but it’s quickly followed by another “need” and more deficits.
It feels like you’re constantly experiencing an emotional deficiency.
You are frequently ending connections or relationships because “your needs aren’t being met.”
It feels like you’re always dissatisfied or disappointed by your partner/the people you date.
You can’t seem to find any relationship that satisfies you for long (even if you’re in a good one!)
You measure your relationship/potential partners through whether or not they’re meeting your never-ending “needs.”
It feels like there’s always an issue or problem in your relationship and the other person is at fault (usually because they’re not ________ enough).
Relationships feel like a black hole of never ending emotional thirst.
You love and adore romantic partners until you feel a need isn’t met, then you withhold love, get upset, emotionally punish, or have a “therapy conversation.”
You constantly question whether or not a romantic partner is a good match for you because of your needs not being met (spoiler: your needs are NEVER met).
You think highly of yourself, consider yourself a great communicator, see yourself as being loving… but you still treat romantic relationships like a needs-fulfilling-machine.
HOT TAKE: EPIC LOVE IS NOT BUILT ON “NEEDS.”
In my experience, need is a frequency of deficit, fear, and fragility. When need is in the driver’s seat, it will have you feeling urgency, deprivation, anger, resentment, disappointed, and ungrateful. Need will lead you to believe that every situation is make or break.
It’s not exactly a recipe for happily ever after…
The funny thing about need is when you no longer need something, you get it.
Love Vampire is a program I’ve designed to help you shift out of the energy of need and into loving overflow. It’s time to stop sucking the life out of love relationships and approach them from steady, unconditional fullness.
THIS IS FOR YOU IF:
You desire to re-pattern your relationship to need.
You like my teachings on energetics or that lean more spiritual (this program will be very energetics-heavy).
You want to break the habit of relating from need.
You’re sick of outsourcing your fulfillment to someone else’s behavior.
You want relationships to feel full and fun instead of hollow and dissatisfying!
THIS IS NOT FOR YOU IF:
You want a quick hack or script to “get” something from a partner (psst, that’s the vampire talking).
LOGISTICS:
LIVE lecture on Monday, May 11th at 12pm PST
LIVE meditation session (date TBA - I will be scheduling this for sometime in June when I’m back from vacation!)
Q&A session (date TBA - I will be scheduling this for sometime in June when I’m back from vacation!)
Replays included - they will be uploaded to the member area once they’re edited and uploaded.
One payment of $199 or 2 payments of $120
PayPal is available at checkout. (PS: my former business name was Onyx Healing and that still shows up as the vendor name on PayPal, so if you see that, yes, it’s me!)
Due to the nature of digital products, there are no refunds.
DISCLAIMER: By purchasing this product, you understand and agree that the information provided is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is based on Sydney’s personal experience and opinions. This program is not therapy, counseling, medical advice, or a substitute for professional psychological treatment. Sydney is not a licensed therapist, counselor, or medical professional. You are responsible for your own decisions, actions, and results.
PSSST… THERE’S ALSO A SECRET BUNDLE AVAILABLE 👀
**Disclaimer: of course I want to waive a magic wand and guarantee you a bunch of kick ass results since I believe in your infinite creative power! Sadly, I cannot guarantee any results since you’ve got free will and all. While I can give you the tools, you’re fully in charge of implementing them and are responsible for your results.
Anyway, enough of the boring legal stuff! Take responsibility for your ability to create fully and let’s freaking do this and have a great time!**